THIS HITS HOME! THIS SPEAKS VOLUMES! THIS IS ONE OF MY BIGGEST WEAKNESSES!
it’s so easy to be scared of new! Scared of what you don’t feel you deserve! So many people stay in bad relationships or run back to them at the first opportunity because it’s a comfortable place, a safe space…
BUT YA’LL IT’S NOT! Dammit as much as I hate to admit this… going back to the same toxic thing over and over again isant good, comfortable, or safe! It opens you up too mind games, to selfish behaviors, to second guessing everything you’ve worked so hard to overcome!
you got away <whether you are forced out or ran away from> you got through it… THAT ALONE is MAJOR! Lol at you, living and shit! You’ve taken the time to heal to grow, to love yourself… the toxic people catch this… they see you winning! They realize you don’t need them, you are just fine without them, or maybe they see your happy with someone else and don’t want to risk you no longer being accessible!
I pray for anyone that needs to hear this…
✔️ YOU ARE ENOUGH
✔️ YOU DESERVE THE WORLD
✔️ YOU ARE AMAZING JUST THE WAY YOU ARE
maybe you run into a situation that what once was toxic, may not seem that way. Maybe they tell you everything you want to hear. Maybe they show you new ways they want you, or say those things you’ve prayed for them to say. But, maybe this time you catch the red flags early on, maybe you won’t! If you do though, please love yourself enough to run away!
run away and wait for the someone who deserves your love, your affection, your time! Wait for that person that makes you a priority even continents away! Wait for someone who wants to learn your past, to help you grow instead of using it against you! Wait for that person who just listens to your heart, and can sing the lyrics without ever hearing the beat!
Don’t settle because it’s easier, don’t settle period! YOU DESERVE THE WORLD! TAKE IT, OWN IT, AND MAKE IT YOURS!
Rambles by LaceySue 